Somehow, you’ve arrived at this site because you have some level interest in dancing.  Somebody or some event in your life introduced you to the idea that you could improve your life by adding dance into it.  Take a moment to congratulate yourself for beginning a fantastic adventure.  You’ll find that the rewards are well worth the effort you put into it.

What Motivates us to Dance?

There is a common human desire to move rhythmically to music.  Although we could get very philosophical, we can break the motivation down in to three main reasons:  to express oneself artistically, to fulfill the need for human connection, and to create sexual attraction.

Artistic Expression

When was the last time you found yourself  in the car, listening to a favorite tune on the stereo and tapping the steering wheel, drumming the dashboard or singing along at the top of your lungs?  Music has an emotional effect on us and it, quite literally, moves us.  When you listen to music that you like, you participate in small or large ways either by singing along or moving with the rhythm.

It is a relief to participate in a predictable rhythm.  And an exciting rhythm excites!

Human Connection

A smile directed your way, a “thank you” at the end of the dance or simply enjoying the presence of another person can fill the need that we all have to feel connected to one another.

Creating Sexual Attraction

Expressions of desire and romance can be found in nearly all forms of ballroom dancing.  It brings men and women into close proximity where a physical and mental commitment are made.  While the man is evaluating his partner physically, the woman is evaluating his sincerity, attentiveness and courtesy to her.  And she is evaluating how well he moves, perhaps a sign of things to come.

In the next article we’ll delve into social dance benefits.  In the meantime, get out and dance!